It is our choice and ours alone to decide who we spend the rest of our lives with. No one forced us to marry or commit to the person we chose.  If yours is anything like mine, there are days I could strangle my partner, days I would be relieved if they were out of my life and days I feel broken beyond repair from hurt. Oh, I’ve not been guiltless in these matters and I’m not perfect, but I do love with all of my being and show consistent behavior that proves it. Unless there is abuse, adultery or sustained addiction usually the problem has a solution. As much as I hate to face it, compromise has to be made for solutions to be obtained.

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